We can help you get more of it. I don’t need to explain the importance of having more confidence. We all know it’s the number one quality people find attractive. But if you’re striving for more confidence, you might be going at all wrong…

Confidence is simply the feeling of knowing that you can achieve something

You’re confident you can tie your shoes because you’ve done it so many times you don’t even think about it.

Are you confident that you can attract your dream girl?

Are you confident that you can start and grow a business, make tons of money, and choose your own destiny?

Do you feel confident at the beach with your shirt off?

The only way to build confidence is to stack enough wins together so there is simply no other way to possibly feel about it

I used to feel incredibly insecure about my appearance. I wouldn’t even go to beach parties because I knew if I took off my shirt, there was no way girls would like me.

After almost 10 years of half-assing diets and looking for quick fixes and magic pills, I got a trainer, made a weight-loss bet, cut sugar and dropped 60 pounds in 4 months.

Guess how I felt afterwards? Pretty damn confident! And I kept the weight off.

I also used to feel incredibly nervous and awkward on dates because I had very little success getting them. There was so much pressure to perform that confidence was the last thing I was feeling or exuding.

So I learned how to properly quarterback a series of dates by choosing the right venues, understanding when to make the move and improving my conversation skills. I also learned how to meet more women and gather “leads” who were interested in a date.

As my confidence improved so did the quality of the women I was dating. Eventually I got to the point where I felt like my own version of a 10. We all want to marry a “10” but if we aren’t a 10, how can we possible feel confident enough to manifest that?

I also used to hate my job in finance and loathed going to the office every day. I had a skillset of teaching dating strategies to other men, but I didn’t have the confidence to sell and attract enough clients to quit my job and make a career out of it. So I found the right mentors, learned how to sell, and stacked enough wins to confidently quit my job and start this business.

Last example…. After seeing a documentary about Hugh Hefner I thought it would be a fun goal to build a similar lifestyle and live the bachelor life to the fullest. So I leveraged my social connections, emulated other men (notably promoters) who had similar lifestyles, and built a social funnel to achieve this.

After stacking enough wins with girls I considered 10’s I no longer needed the validation and got bored of this, as people always eventually get bored of indulging in pleasure. Then I happily moved on to the next stage of adult life with my own version of a 10 and started a family.

So if you’re looking to build confidence to get more dates, get laid, build a business, have a 6-pack, marry a “10”, whatever… the aim shouldn’t be confidence, it should be acquiring the skills and knowledge to stack wins. The results build confidence, and it snowballs.

There is no such thing as a “natural.” A natural is simply someone who got lucky enough to stack wins early and developed the skillset and confidence within the environment so it didn’t feel like something he needed to consciously work on. If you realized you were tall and good-looking in 7th grade, noticed the girls flirting with you, mustered up the courage to ask the most beautiful one out, dated her and then the other pretty ones over and over, you probably wouldn’t be here right now.

So to become a “natural” here’s what you can do: Start by taking this quiz to discover exactly what’s holding you back, and I’ll provide you with tailored content to overcome it…